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What Can You Do To Make Long Distance Moving Easier For Your Children?

Moving long distance might seem exciting to you, but to your children, it can be an anxiety-inducing experience. Your kids could be worried about leaving old friends and trying to make new friends. The anxiety can make the entire moving process more challenging for the family. To help make the move as stress-free as possible, here are some tips for moving long distance with children.  

Talk to Your Children

One of the biggest mistakes you could make is to dismiss your children's feelings about moving and not allow them to discuss their concerns. Although there might be a lot of positives to moving, to your children, the benefits might not seem as if they will outweigh the negatives.  

Even though your children will likely adapt to their new home and neighborhood, they likely will not be able to focus on this right now. Take the time to talk to your children about the move. Focus on the positive aspects, such as being closer to a favorite place. You also should allow your children the space needed to express their fears and mourn the loss of a familiar place. 

Allow the Children to Pack

Although you have contracted with movers to help with the packing, you should still allow your children to help pack up their rooms. There are several good reasons to get your kids involved. For instance, you can give your children control over how their items are packed up.  

If they are able to pack, label, and decorate their moving boxes, they will feel less worried about their possessions. Being told they have to move likely left them feeling powerless. By allowing them to take over their packing, you are giving them back some of their sense of control. 

Plan Stops Along the Way

It might be tempting to rush and get to your new home as soon as possible, but staying in the car for a long period of time can aggravate your children. Once they are in a bad mood, fighting can start and before you know it, you are also stressed about the experience.  

If possible, spread the move out over a couple of days. You can still contract with the movers to take your belongings on to the new home in the agreed upon time. One parent or family member can travel with the possessions and be there for the movers, while the other parent focuses on making the move an adventure.  


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